Is it really true that if a man cheats on his wife, it means he does not love her anymore? That's what most women think when they learn about the affair of their man. They become self pity and pathetic to the point of shutting themselves from the outside world. In short, they hide themselves at home for they believe that cheating is the end of everything.
Cheating is not always about love or feelings of a man for his wife or girlfriend. Some women are afraid to face the real reason why their husbands heated. If your husband tries to straighten things up and asks for another chance to make amends, then you should not worry. His feeling for you is still intact. But if he acts as if nothing happened, then it's the perfect time to confront him.
Why did he cheat on me if he really loves me?
I know it's hard to see two sides of this issue at the moment but try to see things from his eyes rather than your own. Put aside the hurt and anger. See it from his point of view.
What is he getting from the other woman that he isn't getting from you? If you don't know the answer to this question you need to find out what it is. The chances are that it is something he isn't getting at home. It may be sex but you might be surprised to learn that it is something that goes much deeper than sex.
Here are the reasons why a man is tempted to enter an elicit love affair.
She admires him openly. When was the last time you gave your husband a compliment? An appreciative glance? Made him feel like the sexiest man on the planet? These things are important to him. They are also probably things you did quite often when you first started dating.
She doesn't force him to do the things she wants him to do. Nagging just to get him do something you want him to do is very annoying, so expect the worse if you treat your husband this way. Every unfulfilled command means failure to him, thus making him less confident of himself.
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