Limited contact with an ex is a different beast after the no contact rule than it is having to use limited contact directly after a break up. Yes, the rules change a bit and it's important to read this article to understand why.

After the no contact rule, limited contact changes in the sense that it keeps you from appearing needy and desperate when you start talking with your ex again. You are slowly going to seduce them back without being pushy or confrontational.

Limited contact after a breakup is different because you are forced to have some sort of contact with your ex instead of going directly into no contact after a breakup. In these cases when limited contact has to be used after a breakup, such as having kids with your ex, the no contact rule cannot be used.

Stripping away the no contact rule and the rules of no contact is not an advantage. It's actually a disadvantage. Having to keep contact with your ex or seeing them face to face is not an advantage as you may think.

It's actually more difficult, because you have to interact with them. This means there's more chances of mistakes you can make. Even worse, it's harder to fake your emotions when you have to run into your ex every now and then.

Don't get me started on how hard it will be if you see your ex with someone else as well. Trying to keep cool will be a challenge.

So, now you have an inkling of the difference between the limited contact rule with an ex after a breakup and limited contact with an ex after the no contact rule, what happens during the limited contact after no contact?

Well, first you have to break no contact and reach out to your ex if they haven't contacted you first. Do you know what across the bow text messages from the text your ex back system by Michael Fiore?

If not, you should. This across the bow text message is going to test the waters of what your ex feels about you as well as try to re-open the lines of communication in a positive, non-demanded, and non-confrontational way.

Remember, I said that the point is not to appear needy or desperate. Doing so will make your ex's walls sky rocket up and put them more on the defensive with you. That's not what you want to do if you're trying to get your ex back.

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